Sex today

To determine how you did on the quiz, rate yourself according to the following point system:

0–2 correct = You might need to train first before you start learning more. But you should not worry because even learning about sex will be funny.

2–5 correct = You're a little rusty. Get out some lube, rotate that chain, and read more in the chapters to answer more to the questions in which you missed something.

6–9 correct = You're already up the hill. Get a little more sex education and you can seat back on the hill and enjoy the landscape.

10–11 correct = You're a master of sex education. You're ready to learn some of those fancy tricks.

What were your results of the quiz? Whatever the results might be, I can bet that you still might have some questions about the sex you want to know the answers for, even if you got all 100% in the quiz.

If you get enough sex education, it will be easier to improve your sexuality and sex life in general. The more you know about sex, the better lover you become and the more you are ready to receive all that sex has to offer you. One of the aims of your sex life may be to get such feelings and emotions you will never forget. Thus, you have much to learn to make your sex life better.

MARRIED OR SINGLE: DOES IT MAKE A DIFFERENCE?
There is an opinion that married people want to be single again, to have sex whenever and with whomever they want. But to my mind, they are having sex more often than their single counterparts. The fact is that if not in committed relationships, single people have less sex than married ones. The reason for this is rather simple; married people have so-called access to sex while single people do not. Recently, there was held a study, where there questioned a group of single people at the age of 30. And 19% said that they had not had sex over a year. Now you can imagine how many married women in their 30s have sex during a year

One simple clue to have as much sex as you want is to find a partner with the same desires. It is not for sure that you will be satisfied with your sex life, if you get a marriage certificate or you just share the bed with someone. You may not be married and just have a person whom you are dating and meeting every day and thus you are having as much sex as you both want. But in reality, married people do have more sex than their single opponents.

YOUNG OR OLD: DOES IT MAKE A DIFFERENCE?
People are sexual beings from birth to death. Even if they are not sexually active, they still express sexuality throughout all their life. For example, children play doctors to explore sexuality, or at the elder age they masturbate for a sexual release. Teenagers try heavy petting and sometimes intercourse.

Although many of adults had sex at their teens, they still think that teenagers should not have sex at this age. The same with parents who tell their children not to have sex until 18 years old or getting married, even if they started having sex at their teens.

How to define whether it is the right time for sex or not? We are completely sure that people are too young for sex if they cannot cope with physical and emotional consequences of it. But true to say, this also depends on individual. On one hand, there are people who being 30 years old cannot deal with all the points connected with sex, and on the other hand, there are some 16-year-olds who cope with them.

The best time to start having sex is when:

• you are sure that sex is the very thing you need and you are ready for.
  
  
• you will be responsible for birth control every time you have sex
  
  
• you will know what to do if an unintended pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease happen
  
  
• you can evaluate your partner to see if you are compatible.
  
  
• you will be able to cope with your emotions and able to accept whatever comes after sex: whether your partner will love you till the end of life or he disappears immediately after orgasm.

You might think that young people, in their twenties have much sex just because they are young, sexually hungry and mature. But it is not always true. Most young people are single and thus they do not have anybody to have sex with. When you grow up, you are growing up sexually too. More men last longer and more women enjoy orgasm as they are getting older. The more sex you have, the better it becomes and thus the more pleasure you get from it. So, it is also good when you become older and wiser and it has its advantages in bed too!

With the changes in your life, you have changes in your sex life too and it influences the frequency of having sex. Being a teenager, you probably lived at home and had little privacy for your sexual encounters. Even if you started living alone, you might have lived in the dorm or shared an apartment with someone, and thus you still did not have enough privacy for very special and intimate moments. Usually, adults are the ones who have as much time and privacy for sex as they want. But as you are getting older and you have a family, you become a part of a couple with children, career-makers, you become more established in life, and you may be busy or tired to have sex too often. Thus, your private sex life will be changing during all your life. Therefore, young or old, you may have an amazing sex since you have a willing partner, the time and place, and the ability to have it.